杜啦啦追婚记

Just watched this movie. There are a few part that make me can't stop thinking about it.

1. Lala has been dating for 5 years and the guy is not ready to marry her but at her age of 33, parents start to ask about her marriage plan.  Some part is similar to me as in I have been dating for 7 years but due to financial problem my boyfriend have yet to propose to me. The same question  that she asked,  hit me and make me feel like ask the same question to him "你是还没准备好结婚还是还没准备好跟我结婚?" For me is not my mother that ask me about my marriage plan but his mother did and I am pissed with her question. It was your son that did not pop the question,  why ask me? .

2. She met a success guy due to a coincidence in her work and in 1 month time the guy proposed to her which her 5 years boyfriend did not manage to do it. In the end she choose to reject the proposal. Though I have yet to be asked that question,  will I say yes?  What are the thing that i have to consider?  Have I confirmed that he is the one I am going to spent the rest of my life with? In lala's case,  she realised that she wants to go back to her old self and know that she still loves her boyfriend. Do I need to have another guy to help me confirm my feeling?

3. She choose to give up her job which her boss offered her a promotion to the head of department because her bf mentioned that she shine too brightly.. he is worried that he will fail.. I know that I have outperform my boyfriend a bit. Is he also stressful about it? If I am given a chance for promotion, what will I choose?